The Asian Lover

The ability to sell and the ability to pick up women is the exact same skill set.

If you live in the Midwest, you might be familiar with a gym called X-Sport. Imagine a 5′10 300 pound gorilla, bursting with steroidal muscle. He screams at you, “I got a good deal for you! 15 months for $270! Do it!” At the time, I had already committed to changing my potbelly stick arm frame into a manly and muscular one. Since the price was half of the other gyms I looked at, I signed up.

Roido’s approach worked on me because I was already sold on the gym, however his method is the worst way to go about selling or picking up women. There’s a reason why used car salesman have such a shady reputation.

So what does a man do? First, we must break down the sales process.

1. You need prospects.

Without prospects, you have nothing. There are two ways to get prospects, chase after them, or have them chase after you. Chasing after prospects is the hard way to do it. I remember when I used to work for a gym, I had to chase after prospects every day. Always asking, “Hey do you want to try a free personal training session?” So on a daily basis, I had to deal with massive rejection. I wasted my valuable time giving free workouts to people who had no interest in training. Now that I have my own business and have mastered marketing methods, prospects chase after me. I don’t even give free workouts anymore, prospects contact me, then I schedule a consultation.

How does this apply to the game? Chasing after women is a waste of time and energy. Most of the women you chase after will have no interest in the product, the product being you. How do you get women to chase after you? I recommend my coach and teacher, Player Supreme. His 7 steps book will help you find the women that are CHOOSING you. Visit http://zenmack.com

2. The selling process

The reason why so many people fear selling is because of the misconception that you have to convince someone to do something against their own will. The only way you can do that is with brute force, and that does not have a lasting effect. The selling process is very easy. You just have to do two things. That’s right, just two things. Listen. Ask questions. That’s it. During a sales consultation, I have a sheet with targeted questions, the purpose being to find out why they are looking for a personal trainer. Then I shut up. Same thing with women. On the coffee date, I ask targeted questions in order to find out why they are looking for a man. Then I shut up. Why is this so effective? It builds rapport. You cannot sell anything to someone that doesn’t like you.

3. The close

You must ask for the close. A prospect will not do it for you. This is done by making a closing statement. In my personal training business, I say, “If I can recommend a solution for your needs, would you be interested?” With women I say, “Let’s go to my place for a drink.” Throughout the entire process, you have been listening and asking questions. Now is the time for action.

Once you have master the sales process, not only will you be successful in business, your life will also be filled with women. Now that’s the good life!

The Asian Lover

Author of the Online Dating Survival Guide

Be careful of where you get your game advice.

I am a student of Player Supreme’s teaching. I choose him as my coach of the game, because like myself, he was a racial minority who hunted the dominant social group of our country, white women. He knew they unique challenges that men like us had to overcome, and I have learned and am still learning a great deal from him.

There are many false teachers, those that would lead you astray. And no, I’m not only talking about the PUA gurus.

If you happen to be unattractive, or at best, average looking, does it make sense to learn game from someone who is exceptionally good looking. If this man is used to women spreading their legs, just by smiling at them, will you be able to replicate this effect? Of course not.

Let’s say you find a teacher that something in common with you, let’s say you are both below average height. However, you are a small business owner that makes $50,000 a year, and the teacher is a doctor that makes $300,000 a year. The women he attracts are obviously hos, and you will not be able to attract the same women.

A tall teacher, a man over 6 feet tall, will never know what the game is like for shorter men. He will never know that women consider height the number 1 attractor for a mate. In primitive times, height = dominance. So he will laugh at you for buying elevator shoes, not knowing that a measly 2-3 inches of height will not only greatly increase your pool of available women, but also make the game easier for you, ie. less resistance from women spreading their legs.

So remember, if someone gives you a piece of advice on the game, take a good look at yourself, then take a good look at him. If he doesn’t share any common experiences with you, take his advice with a grain of salt.

Best wishes,
The Asian Lover